Da li lepotice bolje prolaze u životu?

Ako ste i vi među onima koji misle da bi svi njihovi problemi nestali kad bi bili bogati i lepi... Pa, razmislite ponovo.

#tbt September 2016. My 50th birthday photo shoot present to myself!!! 2 days post comp and my debut as a serious lifter!! Oh how I miss that shredded feeling...soon!! . The only photo I have from any shoot showing my butt... and it is a tricep shot In typical female fashion we all have areas we are not happy with. Self criticism is what we do isn't it??!! And although I no longer beat myself up nor attach my self worth to my body I am now very open about my perceived flaws (yes I do realise you all think I am crazy ) I share my thoughts so you have an appreciation that even though you might be striving for the body I have the striving never ends!! The very nature of bodybuilding sees us chasing that perfect female form. Every fitness model will have one or more areas they are not happy with. Which is actually a good thing as it is motivation to keep improving, keep training and gaining. Isn't that what sculpting is? Important thing is to nourish, love and appreciate the body you do have while working toward the body you want. Regardless of what your body looks like it facilitates your life.. Once you start respecting your temple, loving it the way it deserves, focusing on how lucky you are to have all functioning limbs and senses, it becomes an enjoyable journey to transform your body rather than punishment. . I am so incredibly blessed to own this body at 50 my body shines for me because I have built my life around honouring it. Watch this space for a booty shot in my next shoot . #fitnessmodel #bodybuilding #weightlifting #lifting #ilovelifting #strengthtraining #strengthandconditioning #weighttraining #gymrat #gymaddict #fitspo #bodybuildinglifestyle #gymlife #muscle #gains #fitat50 #fitover50 #50andfabulous #fiftyandfabulous #photoshoot #booty #loveyourbody #bodylove #nourishyourbody #oxygenmagau #oxygenmagazine #womenshealthmag

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FItnes model Džejn Karnou (51) kaže da joj je dobar izgled uništio društveni život, jer su mnoge njene prijateljice postale strašno ljubomorne kad je ona počela da vežba i da izgleda sve bolje.

"Izgubila sam mnogo prijatelja, i uvek sam mislila da je se to desilo mojom krivicom. Do svojih '30. godina nisam previše pažnje pridavala fizičkom izgledu", prenosi britanski "Metro" njenu ispovest.

"A onda, kad sasm se promenila, moje takozvane prijateljice ostavile su me na cedilu jer su mi se muškarci udvarali više nego njima."

Nakon što se njen drugi brak okončao razvodom, muškarci su počeli "konstantno" da joj se udvaraju, i zato je izgubila drugarice.

Toliko se osećala izopštenom iz društva da joj je u 31. godini dijagnostikovana depresija, a do 40. je dva puta pokušala da se ubije.

"U ogledalu, ja sam mogla da vidim kako izgledam, ali taj izgled nije mi doneo ni sreću ni ponos, već neopisiv pritisak", kaže ona.

Sada, sa 51 godinom, Džejn veruje da je uzrok njenih problema bila njena lepota i dobar izgled.

"Zapitala sam se, ako izgledam toliko dobro koliko drugi kažu, zašto sam onda toliko nesrećna? Zašto ne živim svoj san?"

Ispostavilo se da je fitnes njen "lek" koji joj je pomogao da prevaziđe poteškoće sa mentalnim zdravljem, kao i da ponovo stekne samopouzdanje.

Ona danas radi kao fitnes model i lajf-kouč, pomažući drugima da ojačaju i prihvate svoju unutrašnju lepotu.